The FTC And Mommy Bloggers: Tech Talk Tuesday

by Jessica Gottlieb on May 19, 2009

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I’d planned a post about E911 and the need to keep your land line. But today’s headlines have me changing course.

BusinessWeek wrote a short article about the “influence” that’s both paid, and unpaid in the blogging world. Naturally, they focused on the Mommy Blogging World, and naturally they focused on Jessica Smith. There is an 86 page PDF on the site that serves as proposed guidelines to bloggers. I recommend reading the PDF and then taking the the article as commentary.

Jessica Smith puts herself out there. She was one of the original Wal Mart Eleven Moms (I forgive her for that), she’s accepted a Ford for a year after writing a very complimentary review of their car, and she has been paid by just about every company a Mommy Blogger would hope to woo. I want to tell you two things about Jessica.

Jessica Smith isn’t a Mommy Blogger. I’ve scoured Jessica’s site and I can’t find anywhere that she calls herself a Mommy Blogger. Jessica refers to herself as a PR person and a marketer, and I totally respect her as such. Jessica has a blog. But a Mommy Blogger? No, is she a friend of the Mommy Bloggers? Yes. Jessica Smith might be the best friend a Mommy Blogger has. She’s a Mom and she’s a marketer with a blog that appears to be well compensated.

Secondly, within this space I’d consider Jessica Smith a friend. We’ve certainly had our go-rounds, but from my perspective she is completely up front and just working hard to support her own lifestyle. Jessica often recruits Mom Bloggers for paid work. I respect that. She’s introduced me to some pretty terrific women, and her reputation is stellar. She’s an honest woman. I give you honesty and demand it from the people in my life. Honest is good.

The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) is looking to make some changes. According to these documents the the FTC will be attempting to hold bloggers to some of the journalistic standards that real journalists are held to. If the FTC has it’s way there will be no more eczema cures from hand creams or reviews of car seats that magically appear at people’s homes. I welcome this change.

I’m pitched every day. I have a filter set up for press releases, and for the most part I file them away, never to be seen again. I have a few publicists I’m happy to hear from. There’s one lady out of New York that always has a great small business to introduce me to. I desperately want to point y’all to small businesses and organic practices. I typically keep reviews or mentions of specific products off this blog, I write at a number of other places, and I like to keep my reviews there, where I’m paid, so I don’t have to worry about the messiness of accepting free crap, I can simply write.

Would I accept a laptop from Microsoft (as others have)? Maybe, if I needed one. Let’s be clear though, the price of free is high. Is my blog now a Microsoft Sponsored blog? Do you care what I have to say about a product if it’s been given to me? What if my policy is to only write nice reviews? How would I be taxed on that “free” laptop?

My promise to you is to be honest when I talk about a product. If it is given to me, I will tell you. Things do not just appear in my home. It is not acceptable (in my mind) for a blogger to say, “Occasionally I enjoy featuring something that I really like (sometimes it’s given to me, sometimes I buy it myself).

I’m not the one making the rules. I love the blogosphere, I love that we’re writing the rules as we go along. Publicists will need to be more careful, perhaps asking bloggers for free reviews and then giving them eight pages of “product detail” will cease to be the norm. I doubt it.  As one of my favorite publicists once said, “there are legions of 23 year olds in fake Louboutins screwing this up for everyone.”

I’m sad for Jessica that she’s once again being held up as the standard of a blogger on the take. I could easily direct you to a dozen “mommy blogs” that call themselves Mommy Bloggers and haven’t a lick of original (or literate) content. I’m not really into giving them traffic though.

The advertising firms and the PR firms will need to choose their bloggers wisely. Thus far, the selections have been mind-boggling. I’d rather have no mention of me than a mention from ____.  I’ll give you a hint, the lists suck. I’m just going to grab a handful of popcorn, sit back, and watch the show.

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1 Stephanie May 19, 2009 at 10:28 am

Why do you think it is not acceptable to say that? If it has been given to me, I always let my readers know up front. I think that is fair- I don’t want them to assume that it was something I bought when I didn’t. And I want to be able to blog about whatever I want and feature whatever I want- and that might include a nice baby carrier that I was sent, or one that I bought on my own. What should I be saying instead?

Steph

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2 Jessica Gottlieb May 19, 2009 at 10:30 am

If it was given to you, you should be saying that it was given to you.

It’s important to differentiate between the two.

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3 Stephanie May 19, 2009 at 10:34 am

I do. I always say that it was given to me. In my blog post I was just explaining that I like to feature cool things on my blog. Sometimes the product will be given to me, sometimes it will be bought myself. And I ALWAYS say when it has been given to me.

Steph

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4 PunditMom May 19, 2009 at 10:35 am

It would be nice if the FTC and other federal agencies would go after some people who are truly big offenders and law violators. Why are they targetting bloggers and “mommy” bloggers? I have no inside information, but having worked at a federal law enforcement agency, I would suggest three words — Low. Hanging. Fruit.

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5 Sommer May 19, 2009 at 10:37 am

Great post Jessica. I feel bad for for JessicaKnows.com too for all the attacks. What bothers me the most isn’t mom bloggers, being called a mom blogger, being target as a mom blogger or even writing that I’m a mom blogger but how some “mom bloggers” act. Like frickin’ high school wanting attention, fame and free stuff but hello you said it “free” comes with a cost.

Like everything in life there is good and bad and for some reason when something is negative all the good people out there get lumped into this negative category. Bullshit. I’m grabbing some popcorn with you!

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6 Jessica Gottlieb May 19, 2009 at 10:48 am

@Stephanie you should probably make that much more clear, because what I read was murky, at best.

@PunditMom if advertorials were ever targeted the glossies would close their doors.

@Sommer you and I have been in parallel spaces for quite some time. Yes, it can be an extension of high school drama. Yes, it’s sad, but those women do fizzle fast.

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7 Stephanie May 19, 2009 at 10:54 am

Did you read my original post that he referred to? I think I was very clear.

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8 @bradhart May 19, 2009 at 11:03 am

The FTC has absolutely no business in trying to regulate bloggers. They are an out of date agency searching for a reason to keep existing. The only thing they understand about the digital world is it putting traditional media outlets out of business and unless they can start regulating the multitudes of individuals out there they have no business continuing to exist.

There are plenty of laws on the books now to protect consumers and maintain taxable records. We do not need a great big federal bureaucracy that will in the end only squeeze the small bloggers. If we allow the FTC into our industry, then we might as well invite the FCC in to tell us what we can and can not say on our own personal soap boxes.

As far as you personal opinion on the subject of what we should and shouldn’t do as bloggers, you too are living in an outdated world of standards, that aren’t feasibly applied to tens of millions of come and go blogs. Blogs as with all other social media only have the power of the bloggers reputation. If I get a free laptop and tell you it is good, you will either trust my opinion or you won’t. If you buy it and it isn’t all I said it was, then my reputation goes down in your eyes. Pretty soon people quit listening to the disreputable. It is that simple we don’t need a federal bureaucracy stepping in to tell bloggers what to say or to let consumers off the hook for not doing their homework on the subject.

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9 Jessica Gottlieb May 19, 2009 at 11:03 am

Uh no? I didn’t seem “very clear” to me at all. Maybe I should re-read.

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10 KTP May 19, 2009 at 11:06 am

“…the journalistic standards that real journalists are held to”

I am not a journalist. I’m a blogger. I don’t think the standards should be the same, necessarily. I’m looking forward to reading that PDF – thank you for sharing.

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11 oh amanda May 19, 2009 at 11:12 am

I guess I just don’t get it. I read Stephanie’s post when she first posted it and it was quite clear to me that she got it free of charge. Yeah, it might not be FREE in that she “had” to blog about it. But still…why wouldn’t Stephanie post positively about a BABY CARRIER?! That’s what her whole blog is about!

Now if Stephanie received tickets to movie and she blogged about how great it was—that might be weird. Because she never blogs about movies.

But if her blog is about HER LIFE, then THIS IS HER LIFE. She can blog about a gift, a bribe or a purchase if she wants to.

I thought the whole blogger-PR combo was a new wave of companies trying to be authentic. Instead of having an actor wearing a doctor’s coat on a commercial, they can have a REAL person try out their brand and give their readers the skinny.

And I’ve very rarely read a review that didn’t disclose that the product was given as a “gift”. If I did…well, they were a dang good writer b/c they got me hook line & sinker.

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12 Trisha May 19, 2009 at 11:19 am

What kills me is that us moms supposedly trust each other…and we trust that when a fellow mom says she LOVES a product, that she truly is sharing info on something great. Then to find out that she is sponsored by this product is so dis-heartening.

I would love to see a blogger disclose they were give a month’s supply of Hot Pockets for review, and then tell it like it is — Hot Pockets are disgusting. Then perhaps my trust would be restored.

But the question remains — can the FTC be the keeper of consumer trust?

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13 KTP May 19, 2009 at 11:29 am

After participating in a conference call with Katie Couric this morning about telling the stories of children affected by the recession, my feeling is that less money should go toward the FTC’s efforts to crack down on the lowly mommy blogger. Instead, keep that money for healthcare, education, and the safety nets that catch the kids who fall through the cracks. #fester

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14 Ari Herzog May 19, 2009 at 11:52 am

Echoing Brad, why does the FTC care–unless this part of their master scheme on sponsored blogging.

I’d rather see the FCC care. Send a tweet to http://twitter.com/fcckitz

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15 mack collier May 19, 2009 at 12:26 pm

I have no problem whatsoever with bloggers being required to disclose when they are given products from companies, paid or not. I would think any reputable blogger would welcome this as well.

I also think Oh Amanda had a good point about reviewing products, if it’s a product that you use or that your readers could see you (or them) using, then IMO it creates value for the reader.

But if you have a gardening blog and suddenly you’re reviewing the new Corvette that Chevy loaned you (and you drive a minivan), then it might seem a tad odd to your readers.

Interesting debate. In the end, for bloggers, the more disclosure, the better.

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16 Mom101 May 19, 2009 at 12:48 pm

I read the entire 68 page document this morning and to be clear, the FTC never mention mom blogs. Not once.

The businesweek article does, but the gist of the proposed legislation is making sure that bloggers are expressing their own opinions and not passing off marketing claims (lose weight fast! get rich quick! eliminate wrinkles for life!) as their own while taking compensation under the table.

This is not really about whether Steph or anyone else got a diaper bag for review. And frankly, it wouldn’t matter. She has spent enough time building up credibility with her audience that she could testify to the FTC and they’d all nod along with her.

After a while, you’ve got to assume she has all the baby carriers she needs and that she’s not in it for the graft.

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17 Alli Worthington May 19, 2009 at 12:48 pm

HOT POCKETS! :) Love that Jim Gaffigan rant!

I think Jessica and Steph are both upfront, clear and fabulous. I think that Businessweek piece was not as clear as it could have been. More homework should have been done by the author.

I agree with PunditMom- What is with all the (mommy) blogger hate?

Yes, disclosure is important.

If all of a sudden I started blogging about how I love to clean with swiffers (I don’t clean unless forced) or posting my favorite recipes with Spam- it would look “sleazy.” Because spam is gross and I don’t cook. heh. Anyhoo.

On my personal site I tell PR peeps they are free to offer a product for review. If it sounds unique or would be interesting for readers, I will take it. If I like it, I will blog about it, but if I don’t- it goes to Goodwill.

I am still learning all the dos & don’ts as we figure out the online landscape. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and try to be as transparent as possible with everything I do.

{whispers} h-o-t p-o-c-k-e-t-s {whispers}

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18 KTP May 19, 2009 at 1:08 pm

Alli,

I’d love to see you blog about the products you don’t like, too. That would help steer people away from crappy stuff.

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19 Susan Getgood May 19, 2009 at 1:21 pm

The FTC is doing a review of its guidelines on endorsements and testimonials. That’s part of its job — to protect the consumer from deceptive advertising practices.

In the process, new media got added to the mix because word of mouth marketing whether done by guerrilla marketing agencies or bloggers is a new form of endorsement.

The question then becomes is it a commercial endorsement or not. If commercial, if it qualifies as advertising, then the guidelines may apply.

Why is this an issue for mom bloggers? Not because the FTC is targeting them. *It is not.* However, consumer products companies are, big time. Therefore it just makes sense to take a look at your disclosure policies and be sure you are on the side of the angels.

If you are, and I think both Jessica Knows and Steph have been very upfront about their situations, you’ve got nothing to worry about. The FTC isn’t interested in honest endorsements by parent bloggers.It just wants consumers to have the facts so we can make up our minds.

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20 Brandy May 19, 2009 at 5:19 pm

When completing a product review I usually will say “given to me” if the product was given to me. If I bought it I normally say “I bough this at..” or “I got this last weekend…”..

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21 Gina May 19, 2009 at 7:50 pm

I have to agree with Jessica on Stephanie’s blog – comments like “I was sent…” or “Ergo sent me…” does not explicitly say that you received something for free. Amazon sends me stuff all the time – after we place an order. I get sent a lot of stuff that I pay for. I get sent junk mail for free. That’s about it.

To be truly authentic and transparent one needs to be careful and cautious with their words. That builds trust.

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22 Mina Sirkin May 19, 2009 at 9:15 pm

Do I think the FTC should regulate bloggers? Yes!

Blogs are the modern day tv! Why? Because, even my 75 year old mother reads blogs. The difference between me and mom reading the same blog is that I actually don’t believe half of the stuff I’m reading. Mom on the other hand, isn’t used to marketing garbage tossed her way and she actually thinks the bloggers are giving an unpaid opin. It’s taken me months to actually convince her that what she is reading is nothing more than a marketing schtick for some marketing product put out by internet marketers!

Being of a generation who grew up with tv ads like “I’m creamy, a la Farrah Fawcett,” I believe any sort of dissemination of information has to be truthful. If a blogger pitches a product and has been comp’d, she should be honest and say so.

I most care about any garbage pitch which promises that the buyer will earn fortunes, even if it just hints at it. I think all pitches for internet marketers have to include an earning disclaimer, even if they come in a blog post format. If a blogger tells you she has a million dollar food business, do your readers have info or know-how to actually go check out her claim? What is a million dollar business anyway? Does it mean the blogger makes a million per year? NOPE! It means he thinks by making your think he has a million dollar business, you will buy his product.

Trust is built with truth not with PR marketing!

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23 Mrs Pop May 20, 2009 at 6:15 am

I wish someone would send *me* free stuff.

Sigh!

The problem with written communication is that sometimes we try to be funny and cute and unfortunately, it doesn’t always come across that way.

Unless I know you personally, I will take your opinion on a product with a grain of salt. If you happen to review something I’m interested in, I will add your opinion to the rest. It’s just like reading a review on Amazon.com.

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24 kim/hormone-colored days May 20, 2009 at 9:33 am

Sending an AP reporter your way to discuss this right now.

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25 Mom101 May 20, 2009 at 3:54 pm

Gina, with all due respect – give me a break.

When you order something from amazon you say “I ordered a clown wig from amazon” or “I got my Xaviera Hollander book from Amazon today.” You do not say “Amazon sent me a book” which implies proactivity on Amazon’s part.

To be truly authentic, you speak like a person speaks, not like a legal disclaimer, even while being honest about the relationship. I’d say 99% of people with a decent understanding of English know what “Ergo sent me a carrier” means.

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26 Gina May 20, 2009 at 4:57 pm

In Stephanie’s comment, she says “I always say that it was given to me”. To be sent something and to be given something are different. She feels she’s being explicit and I would disagree.

“Ergo gave me a carrier” is a different statement from “Ergo sent me a carrier” and could easily be taken for the wrong meaning from readers not familiar with the business side of mommy bloggers.

I believe in 100% transparency – maybe even 110%.

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27 Miss Grace May 20, 2009 at 7:58 pm

I’ve mostly stayed out of all of this because my feelings don’t run that strongly. I have a separate review blog. I review things there. I’m honest, I state whether or not I was paid, if the product was free, etc. I’ve been doing that all along, because it seems like the logical thing to do, so I have a hard time seeing how this is all going to affect me.

I’ll be interested to see how it affects the rest of the blogosphere.

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28 Selfish Mom May 21, 2009 at 6:22 am

I blog about products a lot. Some of them are given to me by the companies and some are just products that I love and use and pay for myself. I have (what I think is) a good disclosure page on my blog, and I always mention when something was given to me the first time I talk about it. Usually a few times after that too. But beyond that it sounds to start forced. I’ve been using a free Casio camera for six months now. It sounds awkward at this point to mention that it was sent to me by Casio every time I mention it. I run into this a lot so I’m thinking of adding an exhaustive list to my site of every company that has ever sent me a product. That should cover it.

Then there are the companies that I loved before I had any relationship with them. I’ve loved Disney my whole life and would have continued loving them if I hadn’t been sent on a free Disney Cruise this year. So if I make vacation plans at Disney World, do I have to mention that I have a relationship with Disney? This is getting a little ridiculous. I work hard to stay honest and I think I’ve developed trust with my readers, and that’s between me and them.

I think we’re all going way too easy on consumers. I don’t know who these bloggers are who talk about products without making any mention that they were free (and please, saying that something was sent to you is fine, any reasonable person knows what that means), but that’s just wrong, and people have to be suspicious and look after themselves, then the market will take care of these bloggers.

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29 Jessica Gottlieb May 21, 2009 at 7:06 am

Well? SM “So if I make vacation plans at Disney World, do I have to mention that I have a relationship with Disney?”

Yeah, you really do, because a week at Disney World would cost my family a minimum of $6,000. If it’s free, or heavily discounted I would sure enjoy it a lot more. Having a “relationship” with Disney if you are having a vacation there is the absolute definition of what needs to be disclosed.

According to the FTC anyhow.

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30 Selfish Mom May 21, 2009 at 7:11 am

Sorry Jessica, apparently I wasn’t clear. What I meant was, if I make Disney World vacation plans on my own, which I plan to do in the next few months, with no discounts from Disney, and I talk about that on my blog, would I need to disclose my prior relationship with Disney? I say no, but may anyway, just to cover my ass.

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31 Selfish Mom May 21, 2009 at 7:13 am

BTW Jessica, reading over what I wrote and what you wrote, and what Stephanie wrote in her original post and what you wrote about that, I think you do have a tendency not to read closely, or to jump to the worst possible conclusions. At some point the burden has to be shifted to the reader/consumer.

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32 Selfish Mom May 21, 2009 at 8:14 am

Well, this discussion somehow moved over to Twitter between Jessica and myself and took a turn I didn’t see coming. I was just pointing out that if a blogger (or commenter, in this case) writes something and it’s taken in a way not meant, at what point is it the writer’s fault and at what point is it the reader’s fault? Didn’t mean it as a personal attack and I’m sorry if it was taken that way.

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33 Melanie @ Mel, A Dramatic Mommy May 21, 2009 at 8:43 am

This whole situation is getting out of hand and has my hackles up. We’re trying to go camping in Utah this summer. Do I need to say that the Utah Tourism Board has no idea we’re coming and that we’ll be paying for the trip with the last of our tax refund?

If they only way I’ll enjoy a vacation is for it to be free, deeply discounted or sponsored I’d rethink my travel destinations.

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34 Mom-O May 21, 2009 at 9:13 am

Greetings, I started following JessicaKnows on Twitter because she’s listed as one of the top “whatever”. However, I must be missing something. I just don’t get the attraction or understand the accolades. For the life of me, I can’t see what she actually adds to the blogging world. Her incessant solicitations of “what do you think of me….” whether it’s her hairstyle or the color of her blog comes off as either completely insecure or delusionally narcissistic (are our worlds so small that we really care about your hairstyle dujour?). Her tweets on Twitter constantly highlight all the “who’s who” and “so and so’s” that she’s with which makes me question her authenticity. And every association is peppered with some product affiliation. I have to completely agree that she is not a “mommy” blogger but a paid show pony.

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35 Kimberly/Mom in the City May 21, 2009 at 11:12 am

Wow Mom-O. That was harsh. I think that both sides of this debate has merit, but the good points get lost when things turn into personal attacks.

As women/moms – can’t we disagree without being disagreeable?!

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36 Trisha May 21, 2009 at 2:21 pm

It’s all a game. I don’t know if disclosure is the answer. I don’t need the FTC to tell me when I am being manipulated. These are tweets from some people I follow:

“Just used new Colgate sonic power brush. Oh my, that is like having a party in your mouth! Think I am hooked”

“Tried Bumble Bee Tuna’s Lemon & Pepper Sensations® on United flight. Totally hooked. No mayo – Love it!”

“about to order Kindle 2.0 and will be selling my Kindle 1.0 after I receive it. So excited…I love my Kindle!”

Give me a break — those are sponsored tweets! I know that, and all it does is make me question the person’s general sincerity.

But then again, I’m an avowed cynic.

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37 Selfish Mom May 21, 2009 at 3:23 pm

Trisha, I’ve written Tweets and posts like that for many products that I have absolutely no connection to. Just stuff I love and use and they’ve earned my free PR by being good products. Not to say that the ones you mention aren’t paid Tweets, but there’s just no way to tell. If you know the blogger or Tweeter then you might be able to figure it out, but otherwise they could be real.

I used two new products yesterday and today, in fact, that I’m going to review over the weekend. I have absolutely no relationship with either company. Found the products on my own because I needed them, bought them myself. I just like reviewing stuff and talking about products.

I think Tweets are more problematic than blog posts, since there’s no room for explanation and context and disclosure pages. Perhaps the answer is a voluntary, opt-in code for sponsored Tweets, something like #ST, and #NST for something authentic and not connected to a company.

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38 Jessica - Jessica Knows May 22, 2009 at 12:43 pm

Great discussion.

Trisha, I love that you think my Kindle 2.0 Tweet was a sponsored one! I WISH!

I guess you missed the tweet later where I decided not to get the Kindle 2.0 and buys some new clothes instead (which I’m still not sure where I’m going to shop, still looking).

Yes, marketing is my thing. I pay my student loan every month for the college degree that contributed to my 10 year career. My readers like to read what I write about marketing – so I’m going to keep on writing.

I also love a ton of mommy blogs, including a lot of people that weighed in here. I’m grateful that there are so many blogs to choose from, if we were all the same, how boring would that be?

And yeah, Mom O’s comment was harsh, that’s ok though…she’s never met me and clearly made a snap judgement. She’s human. I’m human. We’re all human. Let’s not forget that.

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39 Maria May 22, 2009 at 12:51 pm

It makes me batshit crazy that I can’t say I like ______ on Twitter anymore without people jumping to the conclusion that someone paid me to say it.

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40 trisha May 22, 2009 at 2:08 pm

For the record, that trisha up there is NOT me!!

trisha
momdot.com

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41 Leah Segedie May 22, 2009 at 2:10 pm

I saw that tweet Jessica. You are a sweetie and anyone who thinks any different doesn’t interact with you.

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42 trisha May 22, 2009 at 2:14 pm

And to add to the conversation since I am here now, I am all for paid anything you are good at.

Rock on mamas!

trisha

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43 Julie May 22, 2009 at 2:28 pm

Wow. This is a pretty intense discussion in here! I can tell Mom-O (who is the only one that didn’t link to a blog or twitter page lol) is just venting or jealous. I’ve met and know Jessica and she is beautiful, wonderful and has positively GREAT hair.

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44 Amy Locurto May 22, 2009 at 2:29 pm

I agree, people should say if they are getting paid or not to review a product in their disclosure policy. If you get the product for free, then say that in your post because some readers don’t have a clue as to what a disclosure policy is.

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45 trisha May 22, 2009 at 2:39 pm

Ok, maybe its just me, but who gives a shit if a mom got a product for free or not. I certainly dont give a shit. Its COMMON KNOWLEDGE at this point that mom bloggers are used in marketing. I dont need someone to spell out the obvious to me.

I am for FTC whatever. I already blogged that I would back it and am a fan because I know bloggers that suck ass, take advantage of companies, and F it up for everyone legitimately doing a business.

My take is….you don’t want to read about reviews, stay out of blogs or stay off bloggers that do reviews. The reason i don’t care if a blogger received something for free or not is because I will make up my own mind in the end if its something iw ant to purchase…and if i make up my mind based on one bloggers opinion I am a freaking moron and deserve it if it sucks.

What I am an advocate of is stopping all the whiny baby crap w/ who is disclosing, blah blah…dude. If your in the discussion at all, you KNOW they are getting free shit, so lets just move on. Its like beating a dead horse. Over and over and over.

I think jessica has every right to charge 5 million dollars for whatever she does and I dont expect her to tell me unless she is flat out LYING about something (which i dont suspect she would do as it was). At the same time, I dont expect Stephanie to dumb down her sentences to be any more clear then she was, I will always assume her products are free and to be perfectly honest, it doesnt really change how I would feel about her opinion. Free or Not, I trust her or I dont, kwim?

I dont think she goes from the stephanie, or the jessica, that is getting paid or getting a free product that is now lying to me because of that….

Truth be told, I dont actually read blogger reviews. Or amazon reviews. If i want something, I buy it. If i dont like it, I take it back.

I think all the moms that have figured out how to work with companies for product or cash are far far ahead of everyone else. I think the product girls need to catch up with the cash girls soon though…but thats a whole other load of soapbox.

~Trisha
momdot.com

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46 Jessica - Jessica Knows May 22, 2009 at 5:14 pm

Trisha (@momdot) I am so sorry I thought it was you! Mea culpa.

(I apologized on Twitter too).

The fact of the matter is, that we’re going to see more blogging and marketing driven partnerships. That’s why it’s important that those who are getting those opportunities are maintaining integrity, transparency, and authenticity.

Again, great conversation.

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47 Mom-O May 22, 2009 at 6:08 pm

Yeah, my comments may have been harsh, but sometimes you have to be antagonistic to get someone’s attention and to evoke change. I have no time, patience or tolerance for anyone who is constantly saying “Oh look at me!!! Watch what I do, See what I did…” blah, blah, blah If the bulk of what you have to offer is self-indulgent communications, be they tweets, blogs or otherwise then you are not engaging your readers. I think it’s good that people are miffed by my comments. Perhaps it will give them pause before they engage in a one way discussion with their audience. What narcissists always fail to realize is that narcissism offers no constructive contribution to the world except in their own mind.

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48 juliemarg May 22, 2009 at 7:23 pm

How much it will cost me to employ the FTC to regulate hundreds of thousands of amateur hobby bloggers? Next they’ll be silencing waitresses when you ask them what do you recommend on the menu … “I like the petrale sole but government regulations require me to tell you that I get my meals at a 50% discount.”

or the Pottery Barn employee. “I think these candles are of excellent quality but I receive a 40% discount on all non sale items.”

The blogosphere should remain a free speech zone.

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49 Therese May 23, 2009 at 6:49 am

Juliemarg

That makes sense about the 50% off the meals, etc. That part is annoying that they are cracking down on bloggers when there are so many other ways this is happening, but at the same time I have no issues with disclosure. To be honest when I go to someones blog and they are doing a giveaway or review, most of the time it is a given to me that they are getting the product for free, whether they are getting paid or not I would never know, but you assume they owned this before or it was given to them, for the most part I am thinking it was given and that is fine. The blogs that I pay attention to I personally trust enough to feel that they would not be lying about a review.

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50 LittleMissKnowitAll May 23, 2009 at 1:37 pm

You know, sometimes I watch this argument over paid blogging or blogger freebies and wonder when the “No You Are” comments are going to start coming out.

I mean, really? Since when haven’t journalists, tv shows, newspapers and magazines been given free products for review? Save Consumer Reports, finding one that hasn’t taken free stuff to review is pretty hard.

This whole argument boils down to you have to disclose. Okay, I think we’ve all gotten that by now. But then the discussion digresses into pretty dumb territory. “You didn’t say ‘give,’ you said ‘send.’ Two different things.” Really? We’re going to spend weeks of stress and anger on semantics over the difference between ‘give’ and ‘send’? Do people just not have enough to do?

Almost all blogs with some sort of following get pitched. Whether or not you take it is up to you. We should all disclose. Point made, now lets move on.

By the way, Jessica interacts with her readers. She makes a world of difference to us. I know, I’m one of her readers who’s gotten to know her as a friend as well. Jess, you keep going!!

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51 monique May 23, 2009 at 2:51 pm

Also, Jessica Smith probably does not exist and being used to discredit an individual who may be associated to that name or used it as an alias at some time.
The internet is increasingly a place for vindictive people to the point fake websites are created etc. etc.
Please lets not be easily attracted to trouble makers and trivial stuff, and Twitter is full of it. The word itself is suggesting how to be. Like watching TV, I think we have to become more discerning with what we are taking notice of, what we are filling our minds with.

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